Close your eyes and try to form a mental image of yourself. Visualize
who and what you want to be. Use your imagination. Contrary to what
some of our teachers told us, daydreaming is not wasted time–it nurtures
a constructive plan in place of inactivity. Vivid imagination leads to
desire which leads to action and belief.
Skeptical? Cut out a picture of what you want or how you want
to look. Teenagers do this all the time, and you know, pretty soon
they start looking the part of their heroes and heroines. Paste an
article on a
subject you admire, a person you would like to emulate, in some conspicuous
place. Having their words and eyes looking over your shoulder all
the time may help combat fear and procrastination. Look
for three-dimensional mentors too. You would be amazed at the
number of successful people who will give you valuable time and help if
you approach them courteously.
If you can’t find mentors hands, visit your local library. Seek
positive role models. Read biographies of people you admire.
In politics, John
F. Kennedy’s Profiles in Courage is still a classic, while in sports
virtually any athlete or coach who’s had a winning season has a “biography.”
Be selective. Most of the real winners had to make
choices, and so will you. Don’t try to be all things to all people.
Learn from different areas, but pay your closest attention to fields that
really turn you on. You cannot go in too many directions at once
and still get
to your goals on time. You must be focused. Listen to positive
thinking tapes. And take a hint from the struggles of others to be
easy on yourself.
See how many times it took Thomas Edison before he invested the light
bulb. It was he who said, “Genius is one percent inspiration and
99 percent perspiration.” And how many times did Babe Ruth strike
out in the season he hit 60 home runs? And among the gifted, see
how being blind affected Louis Braille, who gave all blind persons access
to the
printed word.
The difference between success and failure is discipline and commitment.
Don’t over-think or over- analyze–just do it, and track yourself.
Look for the circumstances you want in life, and if you can’t find them.,
create them.
Begin by setting goals. Start immediately. Find three things
you’d like to accomplish in the next 12 months. You may think a year is
a long time, if you now have trouble planning tomorrow. But a year
can be a short time when you look back critically and question where the
time went and what was accomplished.
You need to consider now how to invest the next 365 tomorrows.
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